Cambodia: Fresh lotus seeds - A tasty snack from the market

One day, Linda brought a bag of fresh lotus seeds from the market. She showed me how to peel off the thin, rubbery skin to reveal the firm, white core inside. In the middle sits a small green sprout, which tastes bitter, so you remove it, but it’s actually used to make lotus tea. The rest of the seed has a mild, mealy flavor, a bit like a mix between a nut, a pea, and a chestnut.

In much of Southeast Asia, fresh lotus seeds are a seasonal snack that shows up at markets when the seed pods are ripe. You’ll find them in Cambodia and Vietnam, but also in Thailand and China. In Cambodia, people often buy the entire seed pod to take home, then sit and pop the seeds out of the little holes, one by one.

Lotus seeds come from Nelumbo nucifera, the sacred lotus, which grows in shallow, still water. You can eat the seeds fresh straight from the plant, boil them lightly, or dry them for later use. Dried lotus seeds are often used to make lotus paste, which is a smooth, sweet filling for pastries such as mooncakes and steamed buns. The seeds are boiled until soft, blended into a purée, and slowly cooked with sugar and oil until they turn glossy and thick. The flavor is mild and slightly nutty, and when done right, the texture becomes luxuriously creamy.

Whenever I’m in Cambodia I always make sure to visit Linda and her family at Meas Family Homestay. It’s such a wonderful, peaceful place.

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Hay Hay Roasted in Chinatown, New York City

On one of our food adventures in Chinatown, we passed by Hay Hay Roasted. It looked so good that even though we were already full, we decided to go in. In the window, there were all kinds of grilled meats hanging. Pork, chicken, and whole ducks, and outside stood a giant golden plastic duck, a clear hint that roast duck is what Hay Hay is famous for.

They serve both traditional roast duck and what’s called pipa or “guitar” duck. Pipa duck is a special way of preparing and presenting roast duck that’s common at Chinese barbecue restaurants like Hay Hay Roasted. The name comes from the pipa, a traditional Chinese string instrument shaped like a pear, similar to a mandolin or guitar. To make pipa duck, the bird is split down the back so it can lie flat, almost like a butterfly, and shaped to resemble the silhouette of a pipa. This allows the entire surface of the skin to crisp up evenly under the heat, giving it that perfect golden crackle.

We ordered the regular roast duck and some roast pork, which came neatly packed in a plastic box with rice and a few different sauces on the side. Behind the counter, a guy was chopping the meat with a massive cleaver, a traditional Chinese chef’s knife. It was fascinating to watch how precise and fast he worked, turning those glossy, crispy pieces of meat into perfect slices and cubes.

Hay Hay is a classic Chinese barbecue spot, mainly focused on takeout. When we arrived, there was already a small line at the counter, and while we waited to order, the line kept growing. By the time we left, it stretched all the way to the golden duck outside.

At home, we couldn’t resist trying a few bites before putting the rest in the fridge for the next day’s lunch. The meat was juicy and flavorful, with that perfect balance of sweetness and saltiness that makes Chinese barbecue so irresistibly good.

Hay Hay Roasted, 81 Mott St, New York, NY 10013

Hay Hay Roasted
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Breakfast at Taqueria Bahia in San Rafael

Last month we went to a wedding in San Rafael, which is a charming little town about 30 minutes north of San Francisco. We stayed at the AC Hotel, which is right in the middle of town within easy walking distance of most places. After a good night’s sleep, we set out on Saturday morning to find breakfast. The plan was to try TuTu Lounge, which had excellent reviews online, but just around the corner from the hotel was a Mexican restaurant called Taqueria Bahia, tempting us with Mexican breakfast dishes. We ended up eating there instead.

We ordered chilaquiles with pork and frijoles refritos. Chilaquiles is a classic Mexican breakfast dish made with crispy tortilla chips tossed in either red or green salsa, often topped with eggs, cheese, and sometimes meat. It’s one of those hearty, tasty dishes that keep you full and happy for hours. Frijoles refritos literally means fried beans, but that doesn’t quite capture how good they are. Traditionally, pinto (or sometimes black) beans are cooked, mashed, and then slowly fried in fat until thick and creamy. They’re often made with pork lard (manteca), though many places today use oil or butter instead. The result is a rich, flavorful bean purée that’s perfect alongside tacos or, as in our case, chilaquiles.

We also shared two tacos: one with lengua (beef tongue) and one with grilled chicken. Lengua tacos are usually my favorite, but at Taqueria Bahia, I liked the chicken taco better. By the counter there was a small bar with different kinds of salsa and toppings, so we helped ourselves to a red one and a green one, both excellent. A solid spot for a Mexican-style breakfast and some great tacos.

Taqueria Bahia, 1013 B St #2905, San Rafael, CA 94901

Taqueria Bahia

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New York City: Gospel Brunch at Red Rooster in Harlem

There was a time when Gospel Brunch was at the top of every New York visitor’s to-do list, but in recent years, it seems to have slipped off the radar. I started wondering if gospel brunches were still a thing, and if they were still worth experiencing. There was only one way to find out, so Steve and I headed up to Harlem and Red Rooster, which is said to be one of the best places in the city to experience a true Gospel Brunch.

Red Rooster is celebrity chef Marcus Samuelsson’s restaurant in Harlem. The place has a strong local following, and weekends are especially lively. Samuelsson, who was adopted from Ethiopia and raised in Sweden, is one of the few Scandinavian chefs to have achieved true celebrity chef status in the US. He’s known for his creative dishes that often blend Scandinavian and African influences, but at Red Rooster, the focus is mainly on classic American comfort food with a Harlem twist.

Gospel Brunch takes place downstairs at Ginny’s Supper Club, which is Red Rooster’s cozy lounge with red walls, small tables, and a little stage. The food is served buffet-style, and before you roll your eyes and swipe left, let me just say that this is one of the best buffets I’ve ever had.

I tried a little bit of everything and ended up finishing it all. Everything on my plate ranged from really good to downright amazing. My favorites were the fried catfish, biscuits and gravy, but honestly, there wasn’t a single thing that didn’t taste great.

You serve yourself from the buffet before the show starts, and you can go back for seconds if you want. Coffee and tea are included in the ticket price, which also covers the buffet, the show, and service charges so aside from cocktails or other drinks, there’s nothing else to worry about once you’re seated.

The gospel choir performing at Ginny’s is Sing Harlem!, an award-winning artist collective and one of the most respected and influential groups on New York’s gospel scene. Sing Harlem! is both a social impact initiative for young people who have graduated from Mama Foundation’s music and artist development programs and a professional choir that performs across the United States. All proceeds from their shows go toward the Mama Foundation’s tuition-free music education programs in Harlem, which aim to preserve and promote the traditions of gospel, jazz, and R&B for future generations.

When the choir took the stage, the music filled the room completely. Their energy was incredible as they moved effortlessly between classic gospel songs and surprising gospel versions of popular hits. Everything was delivered with contagious joy, and it was impossible not to tap your foot, clap along, or even sing a little.

Even though most of the audience were tourists, the experience didn’t feel touristy at all. The atmosphere was warm and welcoming, and it felt like being part of something truly special, a glimpse into Harlem’s soul and musical heritage.

So let’s make this clear: Yes, gospel brunch is still a thing, and yes, if you’re in New York City on a Sunday, gospel brunch at Red Rooster should be on the top of your list. It’s an unforgettable experience with great food, incredible music, and a vibrant atmosphere and a feeling of joy that stays with you long after you’ve left.

Red Rooster, 310 Lenox Ave, New York, NY 10027

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Core Temperature and Meat Thermometers - My guide to perfectly cooked meat

Steve has this built-in sense for when meat is done. He’ll glance at a steak and somehow just know, and he always gets it spot on. I, on the other hand, used to just guess my way through roasts. It usually worked out, but every so often my perfectly planned medium rare turned into well done. Not ideal. Eventually, I gave in and started using a meat thermometer, and honestly, it changed everything. Cooking meat and poultry became so much easier, no more guessing, no more surprises. Once you start cooking by temperature instead of time, your steaks, roasts, and Sunday chicken come out just right, every single time.

What a meat thermometer actually measures

A meat thermometer reads the core temperature inside the meat. Most models have either a digital display or an analog dial. Some probes are oven safe and stay in throughout cooking. Others are instant read models you use for a quick check when the meat comes out of the oven or off the grill.

How to place the probe

If your thermometer can stay in the oven, insert it from the start. Aim for the thickest part and avoid bones or the pan, which can throw off the reading. With thinner cuts, take care not to poke all the way through. You want the tip right in the center to get the true core temperature.

If you’re using an instant read thermometer, pull the meat a couple of minutes before you think it’s done, check quickly, and return it to the heat if needed.

Resting matters

Temperatures keep rising a few degrees while the meat rests. Pull your roast or steak just shy of the target and rest it uncovered or loosely tented with foil for 10 to 15 minutes. You’ll get juicier meat and a more even temperature from edge to edge.

Recommended core temperatures


These temperatures follow standard professional guidelines. For the best results, take the meat out a few degrees early to allow for carryover cooking, especially with larger roasts.

Beef, steaks and roasts

Rare: 120 to 125°F
Medium rare: 130 to 135°F
Medium: 135 to 145°F
Medium well: 145 to 155°F
Well done: 160°F and up

For example, if you’re aiming for medium rare roast beef, take it out of the oven at around 130°F and let it rest. The temperature will rise a few degrees to about 135°F, leaving you with meat that’s rosy, juicy, and perfectly tender. The same principle applies to the other temperature ranges, always pull the meat a little early to account for carryover cooking.

Duck
Rosy duck breast: 140 to 145°F
Well done duck or legs: 160 to 165°F in the thigh

In my opinion, duck breast is best around 140 to 145°F, when the meat is still juicy with a rosy center. Whole duck and legs do better a bit hotter, so the thigh meat turns tender and flavorful.

Chicken and other poultry
Breast and thighs: 165°F in the thickest part
Whole chicken: 165°F in the breast, 175 to 180°F at the thigh joint for the best texture

Chicken and turkey should always be fully cooked. The juices should run clear, and there should be no pink near the bone. Duck, on the other hand, can be served medium, with a juicy, rosy center.

Fish
Most fish: 125 to 130°F for moist, flaky flesh

Fatty fish such as salmon: 120 to 125°F for a slightly translucent center, 125 to 130°F for more set.

White fish such as cod or haddock: about 130°F for firm but still juicy

Tuna steaks: about 110 to 115°F for a deep red center

A few extra tips

If you’re roasting, you can pair your meat thermometer with an oven thermometer so you know your oven is actually at the temperature you set.

Many modern thermometers let you set alarms and monitor from your phone, which is great for long roasts or smoking.

Clean the probe thoroughly after each use, especially after checking raw poultry.

Deiss PRO Digital Meat Thermometer Ultra Fast Digital Cooking Thermometer
$14.98

If you’re ready to take the guesswork out of cooking, a good digital thermometer is a must. The Deiss PRO Digital Meat Thermometer is one of my favorites. It’s fast, accurate, and easy to use, whether you’re roasting a chicken, checking a steak, or making caramel. The backlit display is great for dim kitchens or outdoor grilling, and it gives you an instant reading in just a couple of seconds. It’s waterproof (so you can rinse it under the tap), folds neatly for storage, and even has a magnet so you can keep it right on the fridge. A small tool that makes a big difference in getting your food cooked just right every single time.

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11/19/2025 08:00 am GMT
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Korean BBQ at Rib No. 7, Koreatown, New York City

It was Friday night in New York City, and we didn’t have a reservation. I had mixed up the days and accidentally booked Osamil for Saturday instead of Friday. After trying our luck at Nubiani, where the first available table wasn’t until 11 pm, we decided to take a chance and stop by Rib No. 7. I wasn’t too hopeful since it looked fully booked online, but we got lucky. A table had just opened up as we walked in.

I’d been to Rib No. 7 before but had almost forgotten how good it actually is. April was the one who first told me about it. It’s one of her favorite Korean BBQ spots in the city, and I completely understand why.

Rib No. 7 is known for woodae galbi, which are thick, premium cuts of beef short ribs. It’s one of the most treasured cuts in Korean BBQ because the meat stays juicy and develops a deep, rich flavor. Rib No. 7’s signature marinated version is called Dressed Up Galbi. The marinade adds an extra layer of umami and makes the meat incredibly tender and delicious. We also ordered pork jowl, which is a cut from the pig’s cheek. It’s perfect for Korean BBQ thanks to its marbling, as all that fat melts into the meat and gives it amazing flavor and texture.

Steve wanted soybean stew, so we added that too. Soybean stew, doenjang jjigae, is one of those dishes that always hits the spot, especially in fall and winter. The version at Rib No. 7 was rich and comforting, with that deep, savory taste of fermented soybeans that pairs so great with grilled meat. Steve also ordered a Korean beer called Geum Gang Lager, which neither of us had tried before. It turned out to be a great surprise, crisp and light with a subtle honey note that we both loved.

Like most upscale KBBQ places in New York, the staff does the grilling for you, so you can just sit back and enjoy the meal. And whatever you do, promise me you’ll order the After BBQ Fried Rice. The rice is fried on the same grill where the meat was cooked, letting it soak up all that flavorful fat and caramelized bits. Then they mix in egg and finely shredded seaweed, and the result is pure magic. The portion is generous, so if you’re already full from the meat and banchan, take the rest to go. It tastes just as good reheated the next day. After BBQ fried rice is one of the best ways to finish a Korean BBQ meal, and it’s a shame you don’t see it more often outside Korea because it’s so simple yet so good.

We had such a nice evening. The food was outstanding, and the service was spot on, never rushed and never slow. We left full and happy, and already thinking about when to go back.

A Beginner’s Guide to Korean BBQ – The Meat, The Wraps, The Magic

Curious about Korean food or planning to visit Korea?

Read my Korea Blog about Food and Travel

Rib No. 7, 32 W 33rd St, New York, NY 10001, United States

Rib No 7

Hotels in New York City

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Ninja Indoor Grill and Air Fryer Foodi Smart XL
$279.99

If you’ve ever wished you could get that perfect grilled flavor without stepping outside, the Ninja Foodi Smart XL Grill and Air Fryer is a game changer. It sears steaks, crisps fries, roasts veggies, and even bakes, all in one sleek countertop appliance. With a built-in smart thermometer and a smoke control system, it takes the guesswork (and the mess) out of indoor grilling. Perfect for weeknight dinners or whenever you’re craving that char-grilled taste without firing up an outdoor grill.

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11/19/2025 04:00 am GMT
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