Mitzie Mee Blog

Welcome to my personal blog, where I share notes from my everyday life. It’s about food and travel, but also about everything else I’m up to along the way. Small moments and big experiences, everyday snapshots and the occasional adventure. Here you can follow what’s happening behind the scenes, with new posts every day. A more personal space, updated daily, and shared while the moments are still fresh.

First lunch in Ronda - Paella at La Piconera

La Piconera in Ronda was the very first place we ate after arriving in town in the middle of the night. It was lunchtime the next day, and even though paella can feel a bit ambitious for lunch, that was exactly what we had come for. La Piconera is known for their paella, and when you are in Andalusia, you might as well go all in.

While we waited, we were served a small bowl of olives. They were really good and disappeared fast. Even my dad, who is usually not much of an olive person, was fully on board. When we reached the bottom of the bowl, there was an olive pit left behind. I am almost certain that one of us accidentally dropped it back into the bowl, but the tiny doubt about whether it had been there all along turned into a running joke for the rest of the trip, and we kept coming back to that story again and again.

You need to be at least two people to order paella, and it is made to order and served in a large pan. Steve and I chose the black paella with squid. The color comes from squid ink, which also gives the rice a deep, rich flavor. The paella was perfectly cooked, with plenty of tender pieces of squid, and it was served straight from the pan with small dollops of aioli on top. Simple and really good.

My parents ordered the chicken paella. They could choose between a dry or a wet version and went for the wet one, which had more broth than classic paella. It tasted very good too, but there was not a lot of chicken, and if I am being completely honest, I think ours with squid was the better one.

La Piconera is a small, lovely restaurant that I can more easily picture in the evening, with dim lighting and Spanish music in the background, than at lunchtime. The daily specials were handwritten on a piece of paper, and the atmosphere felt relaxed and local. There are several tables outside under a covered area that looked very cozy, but it was chilly that day, so we sat inside. There were quite a few other guests in the small restaurant, including a local couple who seemed determined to eat their way through most of the menu. Plates kept arriving at their table, and it was pretty entertaining to watch.

We were very full when we left. La Piconera is located just outside the center, far enough from the crowds of day trippers who come to Ronda to see the gorge, and that definitely adds to the experience. A really great place if you are craving excellent paella in Ronda.

La Piconera, C. Comandante Salvador Carrasco, 1, 29400 Ronda, Málaga, Spain

Garcima 12-Inch Enameled Steel Paella Pan, 30cm
$26.40

If you are serious about making paella at home, a proper pan makes all the difference. This 12 inch Garcima paella pan is made in Spain and designed specifically for the kind of wide, shallow cooking surface paella needs. It is the ideal size for cooking for two to three people and small enough to handle easily on a regular stovetop, grill, or in the oven.

The pan is made from enameled steel, so there is no seasoning or special maintenance involved, and it is even dishwasher safe. It comes with a simple care guide plus tips and a recipe to help you get started, which is especially nice if this is your first paella pan. The slightly convex shape helps liquids spread evenly, and while it is not suitable for induction cooktops, it works beautifully on gas and electric heat. A solid, no nonsense pan that does exactly what it is supposed to do.

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02/02/2026 08:01 am GMT
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A Visit to the Bullring in Ronda - Plaza de Toros

After a late breakfast on the balcony, where we sat longer than planned with our coffee and the view of the gorge, we finally headed out to explore Ronda. The town is small enough that you can walk almost everywhere, and for the day we had set our sights on Plaza de Toros and the adjoining museum. It’s one of those places you can’t really skip if you want to understand Ronda beyond the pretty viewpoints.

The bullring dates back to 1785 and is considered one of the oldest and most important in Spain. Ronda played a key role in shaping modern bullfighting, and much of that history is tied to the Romero family, who helped define the tradition as it’s known today.

The arena itself is striking. Built from warm sandstone, it has a calm, almost elegant feel, with two levels of arches running all the way around. Even without anything happening in the ring, the place feels heavy with history. Today, the arena is only used once a year, in September, during the Feria de Pedro Romero, when the Corrida Goyesca takes place. The rest of the year, it functions primarily as a museum.

The museum presents the history of bullfighting in a very straightforward way. You’ll see costumes, posters, and historical objects, and the tone feels informative rather than glorifying. The bullring is owned by the Real Maestranza de Caballería de Ronda, which still runs an active equestrian school. You can visit the stables and riding arena connected to the site, which adds another layer and makes the strong link between horsemanship and bullfighting very clear.

Ronda has long attracted artists and writers, and Ernest Hemingway is probably the most famous example. He spent time here and was deeply fascinated by both the town and bullfighting culture, which found its way into several of his works. Ronda has also made its way into pop culture. Madonna’s music video for Take a Bow was filmed mainly at the bullring in Ronda and featured the Spanish bullfighter Emilio Muñoz, with Plaza de Toros providing the dramatic backdrop for much of the video.

I liked the visit more than I expected to. The arena is beautiful, and the museum does a good job of providing context without trying to sell you on the tradition. It’s interesting and educational, even if you have no intention of ever attending a bullfight.

That said, the ethical side of bullfighting is hard to ignore. It’s far less popular in Spain today than it once was, and opposition has grown significantly. Personally, I’ve never been to a bullfight and don’t plan to go. At its core, I don’t believe animals should be subjected to unnecessary suffering. It does feel a bit uncomfortable to write that while also eating eggs and bacon from animals that may not have had ideal lives either. It’s not a simple topic, and definitely something to think about.

My blog about Ronda

Hotels in Ronda

Finding the right place to stay in Ronda makes a big difference, because it’s one of those towns where you’ll want to linger. Ronda is incredibly beautiful, with dramatic views, historic streets, and a relaxed pace that makes it easy to settle in. There are lots of great restaurants in town, everything from casual tapas bars to more refined spots, and plenty to see and do both in the city and in the surrounding area. Whether you’re looking for a charming hotel in the old town, a place with views of the gorge, or a comfortable base for exploring Andalusia, Ronda has options that fit. Click the link below to browse hotels in Ronda and find a place that feels just right for your stay.

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Ronda Blog

We arrived in Ronda in the middle of the night, so the first real day started at a very relaxed pace. Steve had flown in from the US and was dealing with a bit of jet lag, so we slept in before my mom and I headed out to find breakfast.

We stopped by a Carrefour Express to pick up a few things for the breakfast table. I love grocery stores abroad and I can easily spend way too much time just wandering the aisles to see what’s on offer. Serrano ham, canned mussels, several kinds of olives. It was hard not to go overboard. On the main square, just a few minutes’ walk from our AirBnb, we found a small cafe where we grabbed coffee to take back with us.

And speaking of the AirBnb, the apartment is absolutely amazing. It sits right on the edge of the gorge and has a balcony with a direct view of the bridge, or straight down into the gorge if you’re brave enough to look. The view is unreal, and I honestly don’t think it gets much better than this in Ronda.

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NYC: Breakfast at Bareny Greengrass - Caviar and Latkes

Breakfast at Barney Greengrass is a true classic. The place has been on the Upper West Side for almost 100 years, and everything from the atmosphere to the menu is as old school New York as it gets. I’ve been there many times, and I usually stick to a bagel with whitefish salad or Nova and cream cheese. But when Steve and I were there a few weeks ago, he suggested that we order caviar. At first it sounded a little too fancy for breakfast, but he didn’t have to work very hard to convince me. The staff asked if we wanted latkes with it, and of course we did. Latkes are a kind of potato pancakes, and they’re perfect with caviar.

It was a generous serving, so we went all in on latkes and caviar and enjoyed every bite. It was one of those breakfasts I know I’ll remember for a long time. Honestly, I can’t think of a single thing that would have made it better. If you’re in the mood for a little weekend luxury in casual settings, head to Barney Greengrass. Now.

Before the latkes hijacked our breakfast plans, we had already ordered a bagel with whitefish salad and Nova with scrambled eggs. It was way too much food, so the bagel came home with us in a takeaway box and was eaten for breakfast the next day. Not the worst way to start a morning.

Barney Greengrass, 541 Amsterdam Ave, New York, NY 10024, United States

MARKY'S Essential Caviar Tasting Gift Set
$209.90

If you want to taste caviar the way it’s meant to be tasted, this set does the job properly. MARKY’S Essential Caviar Tasting Gift Set includes four different caviars so you can try them side by side and actually notice the differences, from the clean, buttery Kaluga Royal Amber to Osetra Royal and the more robust Hackleback and Paddlefish. A proper serving set is included so you don’t end up ruining good caviar with the wrong tools. It’s a solid choice for a special dinner, a gift for someone who cares about food, or a quiet night at home where the caviar is the main event.

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02/01/2026 02:00 pm GMT
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Denmark: Oyster Safari at the Wadden Sea

One November morning, my mom and I set off for the Wadden Sea. We had signed up for an oyster safari with Marksture, a local operator that really knows the area. Everything out there runs on the tide, because if the water doesn’t recede enough, you simply can’t reach the oyster reefs. Our original meeting point was on Rømø, but it was moved to Hjerpsted shortly before we left home, since the tidal conditions were better there.

We were a small group of about twelve people, and once the practicalities were handled, including the handout of rubber boots, oyster knives, and buckets, we walked along the coast toward the spot our guide, Jan, said would be perfect that day. The native Danish oysters disappeared from the Wadden Sea decades ago. Today the population is almost entirely Pacific oysters, which are an invasive species with no natural predators here. You don’t have to worry about taking too many, because collecting them actually helps keep the population in check and supports the balance of the ecosystem.

The seabed was a mix of sand and mud, and if you didn’t keep a quick pace, you would sink right in with your boots. Jan showed us how to take short, fast steps to avoid getting stuck. He also assured us that you wouldn’t sink deeper than about eight inches before you hit firmer ground again.

It was incredible how many oysters there were out there, so it was just a matter of filling your bucket with as many as you could carry. We had a few breaks along the way, so Jan could share little stories and demonstrate how to open oysters. He had brought snaps (Danish aquavit) and hot sauce, so anyone who wanted to taste the fresh catch could do so. The oysters were amazing out there under the open sky with the sea breeze in our faces. And if you got too enthusiastic and had too many from your bucket, it was easy to gather more before heading back.

Marksture also offers an oyster barbecue on land, but my mom does not eat oysters, so we skipped that part. Instead, we drove home with two big buckets full of fresh oysters from the Wadden Sea. A beautiful experience in a stunning setting and plenty of delicious oysters to bring home.

Thinking About Going on an Oyster Safari? Here’s What to Know

We went with Marskture.dk, but several other operators offer tours, and they all run things differently, so check the details with the one you choose and see what’s included.

With Marksture you could rent rubber boots, buy gloves, and borrow oyster knives and buckets for free. There were only a limited number of buckets available, so I recommend bringing your own.

Bring good gloves. Waterproof is ideal, but thick gardening gloves also work. Oyster shells are sharp and you can cut yourself easily.

Dress warmly. I wore a regular jacket and jeans, which turned out to be too cold. I recommend a windproof jacket and some waterproof pants at the very least, but make sure you can move comfortably. Also bring a change of clothes in the car. When your boots get stuck in the mud it’s easy to lose balance, and it’s nice to have something dry waiting for you when you get back on land.

The oysters in the Wadden Sea are of the long, slender kind, and many of them grow together in clusters or attach themselves to other mussels. Try to avoid the ones that are too fused together, because they can be very hard to open.

Marskture's Motel

If you are planning a trip to the Wadden Sea area, Marskture’s Motel is a really charming place to stay. The old tobacco drying house in Højer has been turned into a small, family friendly bed & breakfast with eight rooms, all with a private bathroom. Marskture's Motel is run by the same family that runs the Marskture excursions, and some of their oyster tours end here with a cozy oyster barbecue. If you want a comfortable and practical base close to the Wadden Sea, this is a really good pick.

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Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Latte Creamer

I’d actually taken a break from Pumpkin Spice Lattes for a while. The standard Starbucks version had just become way too sweet for me, and these days, I prefer my coffee without sugar or syrup. But a few weeks ago, I spotted Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Creamer at ACME and decided to give it a try, mostly out of curiosity and a bit of nostalgia. Turns out, it’s really really good, and yikes, now I’m hooked.

It has that same warm, spiced flavor as the classic PSL, but since you can adjust how much you add, the sweetness is entirely up to you. I make mine on the Nespresso with Starbucks Blonde capsules and 2% milk. The milk goes in the frother with a teaspoon of the creamer, and the result is so delicious. Honestly, I think it tastes even better than the original PSL.

The Pumpkin Spice Creamer is a seasonal product, and I found mine at ACME, so if you see it in stores, grab it while it’s available. You can also make your own version with pumpkin spice syrup, just add a few drops to your latte. If you go that route, I’d recommend using whole milk to get that same creamy, café-style texture.

Pumpkin Spice Syrup
$14.41

This Monin Pumpkin Spice Syrup captures that perfect blend of cinnamon and nutmeg for cozy, fall-inspired drinks. It’s great in lattes, mochas, teas, or even dessert cocktails, and you only need a little to get that warm, spiced flavor. Made with natural ingredients, non-GMO, and gluten-free, it’s an easy way to bring café-style flavor home.

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02/02/2026 06:00 am GMT
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Cambodia: Fresh lotus seeds - A tasty snack from the market

One day, Linda brought a bag of fresh lotus seeds from the market. She showed me how to peel off the thin, rubbery skin to reveal the firm, white core inside. In the middle sits a small green sprout, which tastes bitter, so you remove it, but it’s actually used to make lotus tea. The rest of the seed has a mild, mealy flavor, a bit like a mix between a nut, a pea, and a chestnut.

In much of Southeast Asia, fresh lotus seeds are a seasonal snack that shows up at markets when the seed pods are ripe. You’ll find them in Cambodia and Vietnam, but also in Thailand and China. In Cambodia, people often buy the entire seed pod to take home, then sit and pop the seeds out of the little holes, one by one.

Lotus seeds come from Nelumbo nucifera, the sacred lotus, which grows in shallow, still water. You can eat the seeds fresh straight from the plant, boil them lightly, or dry them for later use. Dried lotus seeds are often used to make lotus paste, which is a smooth, sweet filling for pastries such as mooncakes and steamed buns. The seeds are boiled until soft, blended into a purée, and slowly cooked with sugar and oil until they turn glossy and thick. The flavor is mild and slightly nutty, and when done right, the texture becomes luxuriously creamy.

Whenever I’m in Cambodia I always make sure to visit Linda and her family at Meas Family Homestay. It’s such a wonderful, peaceful place.

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Hay Hay Roasted in Chinatown, New York City

On one of our food adventures in Chinatown, we passed by Hay Hay Roasted. It looked so good that even though we were already full, we decided to go in. In the window, there were all kinds of grilled meats hanging. Pork, chicken, and whole ducks, and outside stood a giant golden plastic duck, a clear hint that roast duck is what Hay Hay is famous for.

They serve both traditional roast duck and what’s called pipa or “guitar” duck. Pipa duck is a special way of preparing and presenting roast duck that’s common at Chinese barbecue restaurants like Hay Hay Roasted. The name comes from the pipa, a traditional Chinese string instrument shaped like a pear, similar to a mandolin or guitar. To make pipa duck, the bird is split down the back so it can lie flat, almost like a butterfly, and shaped to resemble the silhouette of a pipa. This allows the entire surface of the skin to crisp up evenly under the heat, giving it that perfect golden crackle.

We ordered the regular roast duck and some roast pork, which came neatly packed in a plastic box with rice and a few different sauces on the side. Behind the counter, a guy was chopping the meat with a massive cleaver, a traditional Chinese chef’s knife. It was fascinating to watch how precise and fast he worked, turning those glossy, crispy pieces of meat into perfect slices and cubes.

Hay Hay is a classic Chinese barbecue spot, mainly focused on takeout. When we arrived, there was already a small line at the counter, and while we waited to order, the line kept growing. By the time we left, it stretched all the way to the golden duck outside.

At home, we couldn’t resist trying a few bites before putting the rest in the fridge for the next day’s lunch. The meat was juicy and flavorful, with that perfect balance of sweetness and saltiness that makes Chinese barbecue so irresistibly good.

Hay Hay Roasted, 81 Mott St, New York, NY 10013

Hay Hay Roasted
Hotels in New York City

There’s nothing like starting your day in New York City, with endless adventures waiting just outside your door. To get the best rates and the widest selection of hotels, I recommend booking well in advance of your stay.

Find the perfect place to call home while you're here:

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Breakfast at Taqueria Bahia in San Rafael

Last month we went to a wedding in San Rafael, which is a charming little town about 30 minutes north of San Francisco. We stayed at the AC Hotel, which is right in the middle of town within easy walking distance of most places. After a good night’s sleep, we set out on Saturday morning to find breakfast. The plan was to try TuTu Lounge, which had excellent reviews online, but just around the corner from the hotel was a Mexican restaurant called Taqueria Bahia, tempting us with Mexican breakfast dishes. We ended up eating there instead.

We ordered chilaquiles with pork and frijoles refritos. Chilaquiles is a classic Mexican breakfast dish made with crispy tortilla chips tossed in either red or green salsa, often topped with eggs, cheese, and sometimes meat. It’s one of those hearty, tasty dishes that keep you full and happy for hours. Frijoles refritos literally means fried beans, but that doesn’t quite capture how good they are. Traditionally, pinto (or sometimes black) beans are cooked, mashed, and then slowly fried in fat until thick and creamy. They’re often made with pork lard (manteca), though many places today use oil or butter instead. The result is a rich, flavorful bean purée that’s perfect alongside tacos or, as in our case, chilaquiles.

We also shared two tacos: one with lengua (beef tongue) and one with grilled chicken. Lengua tacos are usually my favorite, but at Taqueria Bahia, I liked the chicken taco better. By the counter there was a small bar with different kinds of salsa and toppings, so we helped ourselves to a red one and a green one, both excellent. A solid spot for a Mexican-style breakfast and some great tacos.

Taqueria Bahia, 1013 B St #2905, San Rafael, CA 94901

Taqueria Bahia

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Review: BeHoomi Steam Eye Mask

When April visited me in Norway, she brought a small gift, a Steam Eye Mask. She told me she always uses them when she travels because they help her relax and fall asleep. I had never tried one before, but I was immediately intrigued. April is from Korea, and she’s amazing at spotting new beauty trends coming out of Asia.

I have to admit, my first thought was that the mask looked like a sanitary pad. The shape, the material, even the packaging. It all seemed like something meant for a completely different section of the toiletry bag. But once I put it on, I was pleasantly surprised. It started to warm up slowly, and after a couple of minutes it felt like having a soft, warm towel over my eyes. The version I tried was lavender-scented, and the fragrance was just right. Mild and soothing without being overly perfumed. The heat lasted about 20-25 minutes, and I could feel my face relax and my body sink into the bed. It was genuinely a nice feeling, and I completely understand why April loves these masks so much.

Apparently, the steam eye mask trend started in Japan in the early 2010s when the brand MegRhythm launched their original Steam Eye Mask. It quickly became popular among commuters and office workers who used it to unwind during breaks or on their way home. MegRhythm is still considered the best-known and most highly rated brand in the category, and their success is what really made the concept take off worldwide.

The mask April gave me was from BeHoomi. At first, I thought BeeHoomi was a Korean brand, but April said it was American. After looking closer, it turned out it was neither. The masks are sold through American webshops, but they’re actually made in China. That said, the quality is perfectly fine. The material feels nice against the skin, with no sharp edges or unpleasant plastic smell, which can sometimes be an issue with cheaper products.

The BeeHoomi mask is designed for single use. Inside, there’s a thin layer of powder that heats up when it comes into contact with oxygen. So once you open the package, the mask warms up on its own, no microwave or electricity needed. The temperature reaches around 104–113°F (40–45°C), and the gentle warmth combined with light steam feels like a mini spa treatment for your eyes. Most people use them to relieve tired or dry eyes, or simply to relax after a long day of screen time.

I’ve used it several times since then, especially after long days in front of my laptop, and it really makes a difference. Nothing dramatic, but enough that my eyes feel less tired and I relax faster. I especially like using it at night, right before bed. The warmth helps me relax and get ready for a good night’s sleep, and the lavender scent tells my body it’s time to wind down.

There are, of course, a few downsides. The mask can only be used once, and once it cools down, it’s done. It feels a bit wasteful packaging-wise, but on the other hand, it’s super convenient when traveling or when you just want a quick dose of comfort without having to do anything. I do wish the heat would last a little longer though, because 25 minutes goes by quickly once you’re fully relaxed.

All in all, I think the BeeHoomi Steam Eye Mask is a really nice product. It might look a little funny, but it works. If you have trouble unwinding at night or want to bring a bit of spa-like comfort on your next trip, it’s definitely worth trying.

BeHoomi 20 Packs Steam Eye Mask - Lavender
$16.99

If you’re looking for a way to unwind after a long day or ease tired eyes after hours in front of a screen, the BeHoomi Steam Eye Mask is a small luxury that makes a big difference. These self-heating masks warm up on their own as soon as you open the package, no microwave or electricity needed. The gentle warmth (about 104-113°F) feels soothing, like a soft towel over your eyes, while the lavender scent helps you relax and fall asleep faster. Each mask lasts around 20-30 minutes, making it perfect for travel, bedtime, or whenever your eyes need a quick spa moment.

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02/02/2026 08:00 am GMT

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